DaveS,
Thanks for the offer. We are leaving town for ten days tomorrow-hence my loosing my cool this morning. I'm normally not so hysterical....I feel very responsible though because all of these beautiful creatures are 100% dependent on me.
zygote2k and Super-Pod,
I had a talk with my lfs guy who said the same as you two. I agree completely. Too new of a bio-system to handle what I've done so far, and also, I think my bio ball/ filter rinsing and multiple water changing is actually slowing down the process of growing a bio-filter.
I am aerating, and will feed very sparingly, all livestock is on hold, and I won't do a thing besides watch and wait for the next several weeks.
My total fish capacity will not go over three, currently two. LFS cannot house my livestock, but feels that what I have should make it okay.
I'll keep y'all posted, and thanks.